Tbh I’m here for all sex-repulsed people

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hunterinabrowncoat:

Whether ace or not, that shit can be really confusing and hurtful and difficult.

  • Like… I’m here for the ace/arc people who have a sex drive and get so confused because their body wants something but their brain doesn’t.
  • I’m here for the ace/arc people who don’t like to see genitals/porn/any sexual content but are bombarded with it all the time every day because our society is so obsessed with it.
  • I’m here for all the ace/arc folks that are fine with seeing sexual content or masturbating, and having nobody understand why they don’t want sex, as though having sex with somebody else and masturbation are the same thing.
  • I’m here for the ace/arc people who are so repulsed by genitals they can’t even look at their own body.
  • I’m here for the ace/arc folks who have always been that way, and I’m here for those people who are pretty new to this.
  • I’m here for the ace/arc people who are fine with the way they are, and the people who are neutral about it, and the people who hate it.
  • I’m here for the ace/arc people who are in relationships with people who want sex and all the confusing and hurt that can bring.
  • I’m here for the ace/arc people who want relationships but feel like they’re unlovable because they can’t give a partner what they want/need.
  • I’m here for the ace/arc people who want to have sex for the feeling or for the intimacy or for whatever reason, but just can’t bring themselves to do it and spend so much time stuck in that limbo.
  • I’m here for the ace/arc people who think they want something, then feel dirty and broken and upset and regretful afterwards.
  • I’m here for all of you, from those who aren’t really comfortable with having sex, to those who have anxiety/panic attacks over it and all in between.

It can be confusing and scary and hurtful as shit. It’s hard to navigate even your own body and your own comfort zones, let alone when you’re engaging with somebody else. I’m here for you all because somebody needs to be. …Because I need somebody to be.

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